But I know what you did.
You are tired of entering time and energy into bad men to re-create your frustrated, hurt, and correct hands. You have been working hard to finally find peace and happiness in your life. And you can not leave someone in your life and destroy everything.
And yet ... you do not want to give up love.
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He wants to know the RIGHT of man, someone who makes him challenged, inspired and adored. But you are scared
After all that has happened, he does not know how to go out without playing or losing precious time.
How to put "out" and open for love, but also to protect your heart and peace that has worked to cultivate so much in your life?
Here are 9 things you can do to make sure you open your heart when you leave:
1. Avoid guys with low self-esteem
If you do not like and respect yourself, you probably can not love and appreciate it.Find someone with high confidence. It's so important
2. Make sure your family values and relationships match yours.
Take care of the life you have created. Do you have healthy and lasting relationships with your friends and family? Do you have your finances and responsibilities in the right place?
Do you have a good relationship with the former and the children? Make sure your life goes well to invite you to yours.
3. Do not accept bad behavior.
Think of the behavior that has hurt you in past relationships and write them down. Is your former passive aggressive, negative, critical, non-communicative or cold?
If your current boyfriend repeats some of these behaviors, ask him to stop. If he can not (or can not) continue. You deserve to be treated nicely.
4. Pay close attention to what you are doing (not what he says).
Your actions show that you care for yourself more than your words.
Do you ask for time and connect you when it is not with you? Are you promising and following?
A boy who cares, loves, generous, consistent and friendly one day be attentive, gentle, generous, consistent and her husband.
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5. Make sure that you engage in all aspects of your life.
Over time you should include it in every aspect of your life without exception. He greet you in his home and his office. Invites you to spend time with your friends and family. He is proud of what he is doing!
If he is lucky to have you in his life and wants to involve you in all aspects, he is a guardian.
6. Be sure you are there.
If there is a man in you, that will make you a priority. He will ask you to spend time with you constantly and he will tell you what he likes about you.
You will not have to ask how you feel or anxiously await your call.
In short, if it's in you, you'll know that. And if not, go find someone who is.
7. Defend yourself.
If you do not mind, tell them. If you reject your feelings or become defensive, this is a warning signal.
Just spend time with someone who is able to evaluate your behavior and make changes if needed. Appointment with a man who has his own mistakes and the values of your feelings (and the same for him).
8. Wait for sex (maid will wait!).
Sex is incredible, and I totally agree. But when you understand seriously "one," it's good to wait. Waiting while you are not in touch gives you time to create emotional intimacy, which is a smart strategy.
If the person you know really is interested in you, you will wait until you are ready. If she is more concerned about sex, not because of you, she does not respect that limit.
9. Make sure you feel relaxed and happy when you are with him.
If you feel stressed, upset or you have to walk to the eggs when you get out, something is wrong. Believe in your instincts and follow how you feel. If there are more bad days than good days, maybe it's time to continue.
When you are in the right relationship, you will feel happy, relaxed and comfortable. I hear happy couples all the time!
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